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Leadership Through Servanthood

Paul says that Christ cared for the church in such a manner that it “should be holy and blameless” (Ephesians 5:27).  Just as Christ would never do anything that would compromise the integrity of His bride (the church), so husbands should always behave in a manner that promotes their wives’ holiness before God.

It is quite common today for men to cajole their wives into viewing pornography or going to “strip clubs” as a means of “sprucing up their sex life.”  Sadly, many secular marriage therapy texts see this as a legitimate technique to increase sexual intimacy in marriage. Christian marriage counselors find that many who would describe themselves as believers engage in similar activity.

Husbands leading their wives in such behavior is only one example of how they contribute to their wives defilement. Husbands that flirt with other women also contribute to their wives’ defilement.

The wife, feeling neglected and lonely, may seek solace in some unhealthy way: overeating, substance abuse, or an extra marital relationship of their own. It is the wise husband that remembers that ” If he refuses to be the husband God called him to be, Satan has someone who will.”

The husband wields tremendous power, power that, on one hand, can result in great love and devotion, and, on the other , can produce generations of pain and suffering. Husbands must make a choice regarding the type of legacy they want to leave.

The writer of Deuteronomy said it best, “I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live”  (Deuteronomy 30:19)

Pastor Kirt Eure

Check out Part 1 – 4 of Leadership Through Servanthood

Leadership Through Sevanthood Part 1

Leadership Through Sevanthood Part 2

Leadership Through Sevanthood Part 3

What is Leadership through Servanthood? One might ask “What does loving through service mean in practical terms?” It means that a husband is loving his wife when he: goes shopping with her (and doesn’t’ grumble about it), changes the light bulbs in the house when they go out, makes up the bed, leaves her notes and cards communicating his love and appreciation of her, meets her at the door when she comes home, asks her if he can get her anything from the kitchen when he gets up to fill his own glass while they watch their favorite television show, willingly goes to a movie she likes, puts the toilet seat down and replaces the toilet paper , trims the hedges and keeps the yard neat , … get the Idea?

In John 13, Jesus washed the feet of his disciples and in so doing, taught us the true meaning of leadership through servant hood.  “Husband, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it” Ephesians 5:25

Leadership Through Servanthhood – Part 1

Pastor Kirt Eure